People are very different in how they express their grief. Some people are criers and others are not. It is important to value how you experience grief, and not let others tell you that you are doing it wrong. The important thing to remember is that you should find some way to express your grief. For some of you it may be crying, for others it may be things like talking, reading, journaling, making craft projects in honor of your loved one or scrapbooking ... anything that helps express your feelings about the loss.